Saturday, December 16, 2006

Registry Focus: Dinnerware

Now more than ever casual dining is an important part of today’s busy lifestyle,
and the versatility and durability of informal dinnerware fit right in.
Pair it with distinctive glassware and quality flatware to create an appealing table for every meal from breakfast or dinner for two to family get together.

Pattern
Select a pattern that you won’t grow tired of using everyday. Do you prefer classic styles? Then look for simple designs that will work for many occasions and seasons. Or do you prefer a more decorative look? Then select a bright pattern or colorful design that adds a cheerful note to your table. Keep in mind you can constantly change the look of your table with festive tablecloths, napkins, centerpieces. And since casual dinnerware is often quite affordable, you may wish to purchase additional sets of everyday dinnerware, to reflect different moods, themes or seasons.

Proportion
Test your casual dinnerware by holding each plate in your hand to feel the strength and weight of the plate. Select dinner plates that are well-proportioned; there should be ample space to display the food. Do the cups feel right in your hand? Test the handle to make sure you can drink without having to pinch it uncomfortably. Are the bowls adequate for various purposes such as soup, cereal or salad? Do your glassware and flatware complement the size, color and pattern?

Type
Remember this is dinnerware you’ll use frequently, so in addition to appearance, you’ll want to make a selection based on durability. Two types of casual dinnerware include: earthenware, a light reddish-brown clay that can be fired in bright colors, and stoneware, a weightier, very durable clay that withstands daily use. Examine the print and the glaze to determine if it will chip easily note the rims and edges rounded rims chip less and hold up better under daily use. Check for color consistency from piece to piece. Ask about the long-term availability of your selected pattern in case you want to buy pieces in the future.

Registry Focus: Crystal

Romantic dinners for two... birthdays and anniversaries... cherished family holidays. these are just a few of the many occasions where you’ll raise your glass and toast one another. Therefore, it’s important to select fine crystal now that will last and will blend with all of your fine tableware. Below are the basics you need to consider.

There are two types of crystal – lead crystal and full lead crystal. Lead crystal is made with lead oxide and is used to heavier glass items, such as vases and goblets. Full lead crystal, the finest-quality glassware available, has a lead content of at least 24%, hence its bright sparkle and delicate nature.

You will need stemware (pieces on stems) and barware (those without stems). Look for clarity and consistency in shape as well as thickness. Due to the nature of the hand-blown products, you may see slight differences from piece to piece, including small bubbles.

Pick up each glass to determine whether it will be comfortable to hold. Tap the rim of the glass, it should ring clearly, like a bell. A crystal glass should stand symmetrically on a flat surface and the edges of the rim and base should be smooth to the touch.

Registry Focus: Fine China & Casual Dinnerware

What's your lifestyle like? Your answer is actually a clue as to the type of dinnerware you'll need. Take a walk through your bridal registry spot and you'll probably discover patterns you love in both fine china and informal dinnerware. Whether you decide on one type or two, know the basics about each before you go.

FINE CHINA Once reserved for only special occasions, owners of fine china are discovering that more frequent use of these settings is more than a luxury--it's a lift!

Type The two basic types of fine china, porcelain china and bone china, are both delicate yet durable, since they're fired at high temperatures. The difference lies in their content.

Bone china contains bone ash and is almost translucent: When you hold the plate up, some light shines through it. Lightly tap the plate: It should ring like a bell--another sign of fine china.

Porcelain china is made of highly refined white clays, is white or pale gray and also nearly translucent.

While both bone china and porcelain look delicate, they are amazingly strong and can withstand high heat. And most patterns are dishwasher-safe, providing they do not have gold or platinum trim.

Pattern Choose a pattern that appeals to both you and your groom. (Don't be surprised if he has an opinion here!) Carefully consider designs and colors, keeping in mind that this is a long-term investment and you may want to add to your settings as time goes by.

Better yet, don't limit yourselves to just a single look. So many patterns will mix and match beautifully, adding even more interest to your table. Perhaps place settings in one pattern and service pieces in another will satisfy your style. Or take the look of your table even further with dinner plates in one design and salad plates in another. Mix platinum with gold, florals with geometrics, narrow borders with wide. Experiment at your gift registry--the results may delight you.

Proportion Make sure you're comfortable with the feel and weight of the china in your hands. Also choose cups with shapes and handles you find easy to hold.

In general, look for shapes that appeal to you. Round and oval designs are classic and can fit a variety of styles and tastes; square shapes will give your table a more contemporary look. The rims and borders on plates can range from hardly there to big and bold. Teacups can be tall and slim or low and wide. You may also have a choice of either cream soup or rim soup bowls.


CASUAL DINNERWARE Remember this is dinnerware you'll use frequently, so in addition to appearance, you'll want to make a selection based on durability.


Two types of casual dinnerware include:
  • Earthenware, a light reddish-brown clay that can be fired in bright colors.
  • Stoneware, a weightier, very durable clay that withstands daily use.

Now more than ever casual dining is an important part of today's busy lifestyle, and the versatility and durability of informal dinnerware fit right in.

Pattern Select a pattern that you won't grow tired of using everyday. Do you prefer classic styles? Then look for simple designs that will work for many occasions and seasons. Or do you prefer a more decorative look? Then select a bright pattern or colorful design that adds a cheerful note to your table.

Since casual dinnerware is often quite affordable, you may wish to purchase additional sets of everyday dinnerware, to reflect different moods, themes or seasons. Examine the print and the glaze to determine if it will chip easily note the rims and edges rounded rims chip less and hold up better under daily use. Ask about the long-term availability of your selected pattern in case you want to buy pieces in the future.

Proportion Test your casual dinnerware by holding each plate in your hand to feel the strength and weight of the plate. Select dinner plates that are well-proportioned; there should be ample space to display the food. Do the cups feel right in your hand? Test the handle to make sure you can drink without having to pinch it uncomfortably. Are the bowls adequate for various purposes such as soup, cereal or salad? Do your everyday glassware and flatware complement the size, color and pattern?

Bridal Registry: get the gifts you want

The bridal gift registry is designed to simplify your life. It helps you get the gifts you want, reduces the number of duplicate presents, and offers your guests an easy foolproof way to shop for you.

A typical bridal registry works like this:

1. You and your fiance visit the store of your choice. Call ahead to make an appointment with the bridal consultant and set aside plenty of time for that meeting. Before you and your fiance register, make an informal list of what you want. Common items include:

  • formal and everyday dinnerware
  • fine and casual glassware and barware
  • serving accessories and flatware
  • cooking equipment and cutlery
  • kitchen appliances
  • table linens
  • sheets and bath linens
  • home electronics
  • luggage
  • furniture
It’s helpful to have a general idea of your lifestyle needs before entering the store. Know your color scheme, and think about how many place settings you would like.

2. You meet with the bridal registry director or wedding gifts consultant to determine which items and quantities you want to include on your registry "wish list". At many stores this service is computerized, so you can actually leave with a printout of your list. The bridal consultant can help you make the right choices based on your lifestyle and entertaining requirements. She's familiar with all of the merchandise in the store and can make helpful recommendations based on all your preferences.

3. When guests come into the store, they are given a checklist of the items you've selected. They can then select a gift they like and that fits into their budget. By using the bridal registry, guests are assured that you will like what they have selected. Many times guests can simply call the store and order "the perfect wedding gift" over the phone. Once an item has been purchased, that item is removed from your list.

TIPS:
* Most consultants recommend that couples register together and come to a mutual agreement on the item that will one day be part of their new household. Be prepared to compromise along the way.

* Register in both department stores (which offer a wide variety of gifts) and specialty shops (for unique items).

* Register for gifts in a wide price range.

* Remember to register for gifts that reflect both your taste and lifestyle.

* If you register at more than one store for the same or similar items, update the registries at each store as you receive your gifts.

Registry Focus: The Gift of Gown Preservation

So, you're the bride-or the couple-who has everything. Even the more non-traditional registry ideas don't hold the same appeal for you that they do for most engaged couples. Well, now there's a new service you can add to your list-gown cleaning and preservation.

You've got to get it cleaned, it's got to be done right and it's one post-wedding detail you don't want to deal with-or pay for. The solution: register for the process so guests can cover the cost.

Friends and family are really responding to this unique "gift," because it feels practical and sentimental at the same time. It's a necessity, but there's also something so romantic about contributing to saving the dress for future generations to wear as well.

Registry Focus: Service with a Style

There's a lot more to registry than the standard (albeit spectacular) china, flatware and crystal. Don't forget to go beyond the basics and sign on for the accessories that complete your look. Need specifics? Thought you'd never ask.

Let's start with dinnerware: We like to see major patterns mingling on the table, but if you'd rather stick to one, you can mix it up a bit with serving pieces in a different design. Register for platters, coffee service, casseroles, extra salad plates for dessert and 12-inch service plates than can double as buffet plates or service platters later. And here are more service-oriented ideas-many of which are available in either china, crystal or silverplate: Platters, fruit bowl, gravy boat and stand, covered vegetable dish, soup tureen, water pitcher, vase, coffee server, teapot, sugar and creamer, covered butter dish.

In the crystal department, consider decanters, pitchers, vases and salt and pepper shakers that don't exactly match your main pattern, but somehow manage to enhance it.

The same goes for flatware, from stainless to sterling. Get creative and register for a complementary combination of pieces. For starters: Cheese serving knife, tablespoon, sugar spoon, pie server, berry spoon, salad servers, butter serving knife, carving set, lemon/pickle fork, assorted trays-and whatever else is an essential to you.

Finally, for all you elegant entertainers out there (it can happen to you!), add on the little things that make a big difference. For instance, if you like to set the mood with candlelight, register for candlesticks, votives or even a cool candelabra. Baskets, porcelain bowls and other open dishes are great for holding condiments, biscuits or rolls. And lots of items can do vase duty, from pitchers to wine coolers. Or go for individual bud vases at every setting-and really rake in the raves.

Registry Focus: Kitchen Knives

Kitchen Knives: The Real Cut Ups

No kitchen is complete without them. But do you know what to look for when registering for knives? Here’s the basics about blades and sizes.

First, you should feel comfortable using the knives you choose. Consider the size of your hands and what feels right in them, the size of a knife’s handle, the balance and the frequency with which you plan on using it. Heavier knives often perform better, but it’s still a question of personal preference and function. Slicing soft vegetables, for instance, is a job suited to lighter knives.

If you’re headed for the bridal registry, a good starter set of knives should include the following types.

Chef’s knife. The most often used knife since it performs most kitchen tasks easily, the chef’s knife is available in four blade lengths: six, eight, 10 and 12 inches—10 inches being the most popular. But to find the length for you, the handle should "rock" back and forth, allowing you to work without lifting the blade from the cutting board.

Carving knife. A 12- to 14-inch carving blade reduces the number of strokes necessary to slice through meat and large fruits. It’s got a slightly flexible, slim blade.

Paring knife. Easy to grasp and maneuver, the three- or four-inch parer is meant for tasks that require precision, such as peeling apples, making those fancy garnishes and dicing and trimming firm fruits and vegetables.

Utility knife. Use a six-inch utility knife when a carver is too small and a chef’s knife too big. It dices and slices fruits and vegetables, and handles large paring jobs.

Serrated knife. For cutting through firm-skinned fruits and vegetables with soft interiors, such as tomatoes, and when cutting bread, you’ll really need a ten-inch or longer serrated blade.

Registry Focus: Don't Need A Thing? Check in with Charity!

While the majority of freshly-engaged couples need to register for just about everything under the merchandise sun, there are those who simply don't need a whole lot.

Older and more established, these couples have usually been living on their own for years or have even been married before. For them, merging two households full of appliances, dishes and towels probably means getting rid of stuff, not bringing in more. Sure, it's nice to have some new things, but a "been-there done-that" approach to the process leaves these brides and grooms looking for an alternative registry format.

In addition to other great ideas like the home buyers' registry, and fun, indulgent items such as wines, cigars and fine foods (look for them in our article archives), many couples turn to charities as the answer.

Whether all or part of the wedding gifts are handled this way, charitable donations can be the right compromise. Simply call the association(s) of your choice and find out how such contributions are made. Then inform friends and family of your wish. If guests ask them where you are registered, they can reply that you've opted for a charity instead and pass along the information. Your chosen association may provide you with a card that directs where gifts should be sent and/or send acknowledgement cards to those guests who made donations.

And here's a note from the "while we're on the subject" department: When the party comes to a close, there's bound to be leftover food and flowers that will likely end up in trash bins-unless you make arrangements otherwise.

Many organizations routinely pick up post-party donations and deliver them to members. For instance, homeless shelters and food programs always appreciate food; unclaimed flowers can brighten nursing homes and children's hospitals for days longer. Check your local community pages or chamber of commerce for organizations in your area.

Registry Focus: Silver Linings

Flatware has always been a regular feature on bridal registry lists- and no wonder! These are gifts you'll enjoy using every day. And the sterling silver kind is the most coveted of all varieties.

Sterling flatware is often passed down from one generation to the next. (This perfect heirloom really does last a lifetime!) For those without a family pattern, registering for silver can be a smart option. With more and more couples staying home to entertain, sterling is a worthwhile investment--and a future heirloom. Most importantly, it's user-friendly. No longer pulled out and polished only for special occasions, sterling silver can (and should) be used every day. It's true: Frequent use will help maintain its beauty, since its patina (those tiny surface scratches) grows more lustrous with wear.

Although prices vary for individual patterns, the quality of sterling is uniform. "Sterling" stamped on flatware means the piece meets the U.S. Government standard for solid silver: 92.5% is pure and 7.5% is an alloy, such as copper, for added strength.

If you're looking at sterling flatware patterns, here are some smart shopping tips:

  • Forks should have perfect even and rounded tines.
  • Study the shapes of different spoon bowls to find one you like.
  • Hold pieces and compare their weights and balances. The pattern you choose should feel comfortable in your hands.
  • The pattern should be precise, with smooth edges and even finish.
At the registry, you may choose place settings of either four, five or six utensils. The four-piece place setting consists of a knife, fork, salad fork and teaspoon. The five-piece setting adds a soup spoon; the six-piece, an individual butter spreader.

It's best to register for the same number of place settings in flatware that you have in dinnerware. A good starting point for both is service for eight. And ask if "open stock" is available in the pattern you choose. This will give you the option of purchasing individual pieces as you need them, over the years to come.

Registry Focus: Honeymoon Registries

Or What to Do When You Already Have a Covered Casserole

These days, as more couples approach the altar having already lived away from home--separately or together--household goods are often fully stocked. By the time the Big Day rolls around, there's a perfectly good covered casserole, toaster, coffeemaker and cookie sheet or three somewhere to be found.

For you well-established folks who can't fit another frying pan into the cupboard, there's a need to receive something, well, different. And since guests appreciate a clue when it comes to gift-giving, registering for that something different is the way to go.

And you know you need a honeymoon.

A honeymoon registry works much the same way as a traditional gift registry. Only instead of rolling pins and bundt pans, guests pool their dollars to help pay for airfares, hotels and luxurious cruises.

Besides scoring much higher on the romance meter than that rolling pin, contributions to a honeymoon registry can also serve as an immediate adhesive bandage for the budget. Knowing that, for instance, a chunk of your hotel room is covered can allow you to spring for the extra band member or dozens more roses you've wanted all along.

Here's how it basically works: Contact a travel agent or do an online search for honeymoon registries--you'll uncover lots of them. Also, resorts, adventure trip companies and traveler's checks businesses often include a registry as part of their services. Some even provide gift cards for guests, a record of contributions to you and other little extras. Just be sure you're choosing a reputable one whose terms fit your needs before you sign up.

Some honeymoon registries make it easy for guests to pay for a specific element of the trip, rather than just a percentage of the hotel or airfare. A scuba session, day on the golf course or night on the town are just a few.

Or picture this: Your friends Frank and Fran wake to their first full day of married life. As they view a tropical sun from their balcony suite, breakfast arrives. Next to the fresh papaya juice rests a card expressing your personal wish that they enjoy their meal, courtesy of you, as well as a long and happy life together.

Try doing that with a covered casserole.