Showing posts with label Honeymoon. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Honeymoon. Show all posts

Monday, December 15, 2008

Honeymoons: Tips and Trends

There was a time when the ideal honeymoon revolved around champagne, breakfast in bed, and a souvenir photo album for the newlyweds. These days, couples are looking for romance as well as excitement, and the most popular honeymoon areas are those that boast of beautiful daytime scenery as well and an active night life.

Your days will be filled with sports activities, shopping, and lounging by the pool. Nights will be spent in exquisite restaurants, happening discos, and walks on the beach. With so many activities and places to choose from, it is easy to find a honeymoon that fits you and your fiance's personalities -- even if they are very different from each other.

Before you book your vacation, it is important that you speak to a travel agent. Their services will not cost you anything, and actually they can help save you money by suggesting economical places and seasons. Also, their insider connections give them access to discount airfare, hotel accommodations, and car rentals, as well as package deals that include all the necessary details and can be huge money-savers.

It is important that you and your fiance do your homework before approaching a travel agent. Decide how much you can afford to spend, how long you can be gone, and what your idea of the perfect honeymoon is. Look through travel magazines and view travel videos for ideas, although the agent will be happy to suggest other hot spots. Another good idea is to ask friends and family members about their most recent vacation, to see if it might appeal to you.

From domestic excursions to foreign getaways, there is a honeymoon that will appeal to both your tastes and your budget. A little background knowledge about what's available will give you a good starting ground for when you consult a travel agent, but your choices are limitless.

The Pocono Mountains in Pennsylvania offer a group of resorts affectionately know as "The Honeymoon Capital of the World," the perfect spot for the couple who wants to be pampered, but also wants a wide variety of things to do. With 150 lakes, 35 golf courses, 13 downhill ski runs, hundreds of trails for hiking or cross-country skiing, and many clubs and discos, there is truly something for everyone. Most of the resorts cater to newlyweds, and offer such pleasurable amenities as champagne breakfast in bed, a private sauna, sunken whirlpool bath, an intimate balcony for two, and a glass-enclosed heart-shape pool.

In other areas of the United States, Walt Disney World and Disneyland offer honeymoon packages that are real money-savers, but provide all the pampering and fun of a dream honeymoon.

Hawaii is always the ultimate island getaway, with its balmy breezes and warm temperatures. Honolulu is frequented by the couple looking for beautiful scenery with all the attractions of a major city, while Kauai is ever-popular for its rolling hills, lush gardens, and cascading waterfalls.

Extending outside of the U.S., Mexico offers some of the best honeymoon bargains. Areas such as Acapulco, Puerta Vallarta, and Mexico City offer diverse attractions in a different culture.

The Caribbean and Bahamas are still two of the most popular honeymooning spots in the world. Their cheapest rates occur during the spring, summer, and fall seasons, so wedding season in the United States can take full advantage of all that this tropical region has to offer. Cancun, in the Mexican Caribbean, is the ideal spot for couples who want to relax and enjoy the hedonistic pleasures that abound, while Grand Cayman, Puerto Rico, Anguilla, and St. Martin offer various perks to suit your individual tastes.

Cruises are always popular, especially to such sunny tropical paradises as the Caribbean. They provide a good value, since all your meals and entertainment are included in the overhead price, and you have the opportunity to visit more than one or two islands.

All-inclusive resorts such as those in Puerto Rico, Jamaica, Aruba, and the Caribbean also promise great values in the form of package deals.

If you have your heart set on a European honeymoon, choose one city or area instead of trekking all over the continent. It's much more relaxing to stay in one place, and you'll have the opportunity to really explore the sights, sounds, and smells of the city. It may also be more economical, since by renting an apartment for one or two weeks, you can save as much as thirty percent over the cost of a hotel room. Areas such as the Greek Isles, the English countryside, and Provence, France are popular retreats, while Paris and Rome are traditional romantic favorites.

Whether you choose an excursion to Australia or a bed-and-breakfast inn close to home, your honeymoon will be a once-in-a-lifetime vacation. Make it memorable for being so perfectly suited to the tastes and desires of you and your new husband by taking the time to sit down with a travel agent and discuss your options. You can combine exciting experiences with relaxing moments if you just take the time to explore your choices, and reflect upon the one most suited to your personalities.

Tuesday, October 7, 2008

The Perfect Honeymoon Vacation: Hawaii, Caribbean Islands, Sandals Resort, Greece, Cruising?

How exciting …He just popped the question, you accepted. Congratulations…

The next few months will be very busy making all sorts of arrangements and decisions for that special day. One of the major decisions is "WHERE TO HONEYMOON" and how to go about making sure your vacation is hassle free.

Your Honeymoon is the first step in your new life together. It is more than a pleasant trip to pretty places. It's a chance to come down to earth gently from the rush of the wedding and to discover again what it is like to be very privately and simply in love.

Whether you want a perfect hideaway in the beautiful Caribbean or Hawaii, one of the many wonderfully romantic ships to spoil you, an irresistible adventure in the South Pacific where you won't see the same old faces, or an active resort vacation golfing, playing tennis, sailing,
skiing, dancing- let a professional travel consultant help you make the right decision. Here are a few tips to consider.

If possible, give yourselves at least a 6-month lead for sitting down with your travel professional. Decide ahead of time as to the type of vacation you prefer and don't be afraid to ask questions or discuss any ideas you may have. A good travel agent will listen and will also help steer you in the right direction if you have trouble making up your mind.

Arrange your vacation time with your employer prior to making a final commitment. Try to avoid traveling on weekends, as airfares tend to be higher than midweek, plus giving
yourselves some "breathing time" between the wedding and going back to work.

And now for the big decision, where to honeymoon?

Hawaii - for lovers, Hawaii is paradise with wonderous resorts, unparralled beauty and as much or as little activity as anyone could desire. In Hawaii, romance is in the air- and on land and sea too. Guided tours, sunset cruises, kayak adventures, helicopter tours and horseback rides all exert magnetic appeal. Give yourselves at least 10 days and visit one or two islands at the most unless you have more time. The most popular islands are Kauai and Maui. Resort packages including flights and car rentals are plentiful. Just make sure you take plenty of spending money along, as you will want to participate in many activities. Your travel agent will offer suggestions about hotels that cater to honeymooners with complimentary room upgrades and champagne upon arrival.

Caribbean Islands - Picture an infinite blue sea meeting a pristine beach. Hear the rhythmic roll of the tide and melodic chime of a steel drum. Can you see yourselves in the Caribbean? Each island destination offers its unique enchantment and flavor. For example, Aruba reveals a distinctly Dutch charm with windmills and pastel-hued houses, while snorkeling, windsurfing and diving is a must in the Cayman Islands with it famous coral-encrusted walls and private
lure. Puerto Rico offers a mix of native color and sophistication. Explore Barbados with its old time plantation houses and new time music or unwind on the island of St. Lucia combining
the charm of old-world England with West Indies Style. Antigua, with its yacht-filled harbors, is the island to visit for quiet sophistication and miles of beach. So stop fantasizing and make your Caribbean honeymoon memorable.

Sandals Resort - Sandals is a diverse collection of 10 of the most idyllic resorts on earth, created exclusively for couples in love on four of the Caribbean's most exotic islands. At every Sandals, a spirit of island hospitality is in the air, complimented by an ever- smiley staff that
takes great pride in sensing your every desire. Sandals is a private world where one price covers the best of everything- including the most luxurious rooms and suites, all you can eat and drink, exclusive amenities like watersports and the most spectacular views the Caribbean has to offer.

Greece is a paradise for honeymooners. The crystal clear water of the Aegean and the Ionian seas, the romance of Santorini, the white washed homes of Mykonos, the breathtaking
beauty of the Greek Isles combined with fun loving people and history makes Greece a popular destination.

Cruising - what is your vision of luxury travel? Spacious, well-appointed accommodations with a balcony overlooking the ocean? Your choice of a vast array of daytime diversions ranging from shopping, fitness classes and spa services to scuba instruction, swimming and lounging
by the pool? Gourmet cuisine complemented by an expensive wine list, served in an atmosphere where your every need and whim is tended to? Exciting nightly entertainment, including Broadway-style shows, piano bars, disco dancing or casino gambling? Now imagine experiencing all of these things and more. Cruise vacations afford you the opportunity to surround yourselves in luxury each and every moment while also exporting exotic ports of calls. The best thing about cruising is that all expenses are paid in advance except for drinks, shore excursions and gratuities.

These are but a few ideas to get you excited… but many destinations like Tahiti, Disney World or Pocono's, are at your fingertips. All you need now is a way to figure out how you go about paying for your "dream vacation".

Decide on a honeymoon budget including spending money and meals (if not included in the package). Compare all-inclusive vacations versus other packages. Book early so you have
plenty of time to make decisions as well as get your first choice in hotel accommodations and airlines. Finally, take advantage of a travel agency's Bridal Registry. This allows friends and relatives to purchase gift certificates for the bride and groom to be applied toward the balance
of the honeymoon.

Have fun… but most important, relax and enjoy the experience…

Tips For Planning Your Dream Honeymoon

Coordinating your wedding takes months of planning. You will be asked to make more decisions than you ever imagined.

The "perfect" honeymoon is different for every bride and groom. A professional travel agent will be able to answer questions, offer suggestions and make reservations, but he or she will be of much more help to you and your mate if you have made some basic decisions first. The following are some things to consider prior to meeting with a travel agent to plan your honeymoon.

Length of the Honeymoon:


  • Determine how long your vacation itself will last.

  • Then, when calculating your vacation time from your employment, leave yourself a few extra days for unexpected days you might need off. Remember that you will need
    time during the last few weeks before the wedding to finalize some plans with caterers and florists, etc.

  • If at all possible, leave one day between the wedding date and your departure date to allow you to organize yourself and visit with out-of-town guests.

  • When you return from your honeymoon, it may be advantageous to leave an extra day prior to returning to work to unpack and get "back to reality."


The Pace and Style of Honeymoon:

Do you envision an adventurous honeymoon or relaxing carefree honeymoon? Have you and your fiancé each shared your "dream" vacation with each other? Since many honeymooners have never taken an extended vacation together, it's important to discuss your vision of your
perfect honeymoon. Below are some examples of some popular honeymoons and what to expect.


  • Cruising: For the more adventurous, a cruise is typically a faster paced honeymoon. You experience several islands in one week. A cruise is considered a semi-all-inclusive vacation. 90% of your vacation is paid for prior to departing. All meals and activities are included in the cost of the cruise.

  • The only expenses you'll pay on the cruise are drinks, shore excursions (what you do when the ship is docked), and gratuities.

  • Hawaii: We recommend a minimum of 10 days on the islands, and one-day when you return to adjust to the time difference. This is for the adventurous, as you will most likely visit several islands. Breakfast is often included with many hotels, but lunch and dinner
    is at your expense. There are a limited number of options to have your meals paid in advance. Honeymooners going to Hawaii need to budget for meals and excursions on
    the islands. Discuss your budget with your travel agent to determine the best options for you.

  • Walt Disney World: Disney has always appealed to adults as much as kids. It is easy to get to, and has numerous options to suit any honeymoon taste and budget.You can plan for three days to two weeks at Disney.

  • Caribbean Islands: Perhaps the most popular destination for honeymooners from the Northeast.Each island is very unique. Sitting down with a travel agent will help you determine which island has what you’re looking for. You should be aware that hurricane season is from late summer through the fall.

  • Sandals Resorts: Sandals are our favorite. They offer 10 unique resorts on four Caribbean islands. Everything is included, from top shelf alcohol, meals, snacks, water-skiing, snorkeling, volleyball, and lots more. They will even resort certify you to SCUBA and bring you out every day. You have access to no less than 6 gourmet restaurants at each resort. No tipping is allowed, so you really do not need to worry about money during your entire stay. It is the ultimate in stress free vacations. To match yourself up with the right resort for you, set up an appointment to meet with a Certified Sandals Representative.

The Budget for your Honeymoon:

Decide on the total amount you are willing to spend on the honeymoon. Include what you are planning to spend on meals and spending money. This will allow you to more accurately compare the cost of all-inclusive vacations, semi-all-inclusive vacations and non-inclusive vacations.

Consider enrolling in a travel agency's Bridal Registry. This allows guests to purchase gift certificates for the bride and groom to be applied toward the balance of the honeymoon.

Wednesday, May 7, 2008

Honeymoon Ideas: Smoky Mountains

If you are looking for a quiet, relaxing honeymoon full of natural wonder and country charm, then a visit to the Great Smoky Mountains may be perfect for you.

Nestled deep in the heart of the Great Smoky Mountains on the border of Tennessee and North Carolina lay the two main cities of the mountain range, Gatlinburg and Pigeon Forge, Tennessee. These two small towns and the Great Smoky Mountain National Park are a playground for nature lovers and those who wish partake in all of the attractions surrounding this glorious mountain range.

First and foremost, a honeymooning couple must stay in one of the many quaint and cozy chalets and cabins that are all over the area. Most of the chalets and cabins are nestled atop their own private mountain ledge, and are equipped with Jacuzzis, fireplaces, and a stunning view of the mountains. Some of these cabins and chalets even offer “honeymoon” accommodations specifically designed to pamper the new bride and groom.

After spending time being cozy in your cabin, honeymooners can try out many of the Great Smoky Mountains National Park hiking trails and excursions. There are numerous outdoor activities in the Great Smoky Mountains that can help the most extreme couples to the even the most relaxed couples enjoy the wildlife and scenery. A must see is the tour of Cades Cove. Whether it is done by hiking or by automobile, Cades Cove is a great place to see a sampling of everything the Great Smoky Mountains have to offer. It is abound with historic structures that tell the history of the cove’s earliest inhabitants and picturesque views of the mountains. You can hike Cades Cove through any of its four trails, take the automobile tour, or even go horseback riding. The beginning points for these tours are available at the Sugarlands Visitor Center just inside the park entrance at Gatlinburg, a must for anyone planning to get the most out of the Great Smoky Mountains National Park.

Another popular destination and landmark in the Gatlinburg/Pigeon Forge area is Dollywood, a city-sized shrine to its hometown heroine, Dolly Parton. In 1986, she created this theme park that explores the “roots” of her hometown mountain hollow. This theme park fits the mold with tons of rides, country comfort foods, craft classes, live music performances, and Dolly museums, a Southern Gospel Music Hall of Fame, and even Dolly’ own Splash Country, a water park added to the lineup in 2001.

Of course, Dollywood is not the only attraction in Pigeon Forge. You can enjoy a number of attractions like the Dixie Stampede, a unique dining experience that allows you to watch thirty-two horses, trick riding, racing pigs, and other antics while you enjoy a four course meal, as well as the Comedy Barn Theater, and a number of outlet shopping malls.

In Gatlinburg, there are also a number of attractions to keep you occupied, but the most popular is the ski village of Ober Gatlinburg, which is home to a year round amusement park and ski resort with something exciting for everyone. To get to the location of Ober Gatlinburg, which rests atop Mt. Harrison, you have to take America’s largest Aerial Tramway. During the winter months, honeymooners can take a ride up the ski lift, and then ride down the 1800 foot twin track slide. If you aren’t that adventurous, you can still ride the ski lift and take advantage of the breathtaking views and photo opportunities There is ice skating year round in the in the massive climate controlled ice skating rink, as well as go-carts, or three “dry” water raft rides.

Gatlinburg is also home to tons of craft shops and several kitschy museums of interest. By far the most popular of these museums are the Ripley’s Believe it or Not Museum and the Guinness Book of World Records Museum. Both of these museums are just a few of the key places where visitors take a peek every year. There are also other downtown Gatlinburg attractions, like Ripley’s Aquarium, the Space Needle, and Ripley’s Haunted Adventure.

There’s no doubt that the Great Smoky Mountains make a wonderful honeymoon location, and it is no wonder it is the fourth most popular domestic honeymoon location in the U.S. With something for every type of couple, it is definitely an ideal location for even the most diverse of couples.

Honeymoon: Adrenaline Packed

Romance is not only about roses, candles and wine...different activities and events may be romantic to different couples. For newlyweds who enjoy an awesome adrenaline rush, sharing it with your new spouse on your honeymoon can be twice the excitement. Here are some romantic ways to "spice up" your honeymoon---with just a dash of dare-devil action:

* Couples' Bungee Jumping: hold onto each other tight as you plummet into the deep on the same cord.

* Parasailing: what could be more romantic than snuggling with your partner and experiencing the enormity of the ocean underneath your feet?

* Scuba Diving: experience the beauty of the ocean together. Don't forget to share an underwater kiss!

* White Water Rafting: you'll really learn to work together as partners when you're in charge of the boat---and each other's lives.

* Snowmobiling: share the beauty of the winter and the thrill of speed.

* Skydiving: this once-in-a-lifetime experience should be shared by soulmates. You never know, you may just perfect that celestial embrace!

* Rock Climbing: support each other through the tough sections. For extra romance points, pack a picnic lunch in your backpack.

The above activities are just some of the many exciting types of recreation you could try on your honeymoon. Of course, whatever you may end up doing, be sure to think of your safety first---always take necessary precautions and consult professionals before embarking on an adrenaline-packed couples' adventure.

Honeymoon Ideas: Niagara Falls

If you are looking for a honeymoon destination within the United States, consider a place where newly married love has been in its "mist" for hundreds of years: Niagara Falls, New York.

Niagara Falls is one of the top honeymoon destinations in the world. Honeymooner's fascination with Niagara Falls began over two hundred years ago when Theodosia Burr (daughter of former vice president Aaraon Burr) and her husband Joseph Alston honeymooned there. Three years later, Napolean Bonaparte's younger brother and his new wife make the trek to Niagara Falls as well and the popularity of this region as a honeymoon haven for the rich and famous--as well as those "normal" newlyweds wishing to emulate them--was born.

Today, over 50,000 honeymooners still travel to Niagara Falls each year! The obvious draw of Niagara Falls is its water. There are three water falls in the Niagara Falls region--Rainbow and Bridal Veil Falls on the American side and the largest--Horseshoe Falls--on the Canadian. All three falls are in very close proximity and are just a short and beautiful stroll away from one another. Lore has it that he negative ions generated by the falling water of the Falls are thought to be a strong aphrodisiac, and another of the reason of the region's honeymooning popularity. Living close to the Falls and visiting them often, I can attest to the strange power of the Falls. Whenever my husband and I visit, we are awed at their power, beauty, and voracity--they definitely do have a magical, mesmerizing, quality about them that always leads to a very romantic feeling. There are very few things more romantic then a kiss with the one you love in front of the Falls or while riding the Maid of the Mist boat under them (a must do for an Niagara Falls visitor!)

While the water is what primarily attracts honeymooners to the Falls, there are other things to do as well. Both Niagara Falls, New York and Canada are quite touristy and you can easily spend a day or two visiting the shops, wax museums, haunted houses, and other attractions. The New York side also boosts a wonderful Butterfly Conservatory and park where many newlyweds go to get their wedding photos taken. It is quite romantic to stroll around the park (or take a buggy ride) and see brides and grooms celebrating the happy moments you recently did. Another popular place in Niagara Falls is Casino Niagara in the heart of the Canadian district. The American side is in the process of building a casino as well. There are plenty of places to lodge on both sides of the Falls and my only suggestion for choosing where to stay is one with a view of the Falls from your room, other then that, it is personal preference. Lodging ranges from the large, modern, Hilton, to small independent motels with heart shaped jacuzzis in the room, to cozy bed and breakfasts close to the park. With nearly 4,000 rooms on the American side along, there are more then enough places to stay for every pocketbook and personality.

Niagara Falls is quite busy! If you are looking for a "relaxing" place to honeymoon, this may not be the right choice--however, it would be a wonderful place to visit for one or two days and then go to the Niagara-On-The-Lake district (about twenty miles North of the Falls) The historic Lake area is home to many boutiques, bed and breakfasts, restaurants, and the Shaw Festival. There are also many wineries nearby. Another option would be to combine your Niagara Falls visit with a trip to Toronto, Canada. Toronto is an amazing city teeming with great restaurants, fine lodging, and many cultural, shopping, and sporting opportunities. Toronto is about a one and a half hour drive from Niagara Falls and well worth it.

As a Western, New Yorker, I never get sick of visiting Niagra Falls. The falls themselves are awe inspiring each time I see them and their power and age always remind me that life is short, so fill it with happiness and love. Happiness and love: Niagara Falls.

Honeymoon Ideas: Cancun, Mexico

So you’re not quite sure where to go for your honeymoon? With so many on destinations and packages, I thought I’d share my experience with our all-inclusive package to Cancun, Mexico.

Cancun is a true island, bordered on one side by the Caribbean Sea while a lagoon adjoins the opposite side. From point to point, Cancun is 17 Kilometers long, yet only 300-500 meters wide. It is shaped like a “7”. The “hotel zone” is where most of it’s visitors stay, occupying approximately 25 kilometers down the coast, and takes about 30 minutes to drive from one end to the other. Cancun is known worldwide for it’s beautiful waters, and is capitalized on with the large array of water-sports offered to tourists.

About a 4-hour flight directly into Cancun, we had no idea what to expect when we stepped off the plane. The Airport in Cancun is very modest and was at the time, under construction. We could feel the air when we stepped off the plane; it was the most humid air we ever felt, like a thick, wet cloth. Once in the airport, with our original birth certificates (with raised seal only!) and drivers license in hand, we were cleared through customs with no hassle at all. It is recommended that if traveling on your honeymoon, unless you’ve received your new picture bearing drivers license in your new married name, to just travel under your maiden name, less confusion at customs and less of a chance you’ll be questioned.

After picking up our luggage, we were taken by shuttle to our hotel. The first thing we noticed is Iguanas – everywhere. They are on the sidewalks right in the hotel zone. They ranged in size from 6-18 inches. Pretty much everyone in the hotel zone speaks English, and we had no problem with communication. In our hotel, the employees spoke not only English, but also French, German, and many other languages to accommodate all guests. We met people from all over the world in our hotel.

As far as what to bring to Cancun, I highly recommend light clothing, a very high SPF waterproof sun block, sunglasses, bathing suit, some type of water shoe such as flip flops or aqua socks. Women, bring a stronger holding hairspray than you usually use, due to the humidity. I highly recommend bringing about $50 in singles for tipping, especially if you’ve got an all-inclusive package. The US Dollar is worth about 10 pesos in Mexico. Tipping a dollar or two goes a long way there, and the employees really appreciate it. Everything we did accepted American money, except the bus that takes you around the hotel zone. It costs 6 pesos (60 cents US) per person to ride the bus, and most hotels have a currency exchange office for guests.

Lastly, if you decide to take a tour, whether it is horseback riding, or a day tour to Cozumel, it is recommended you buy your tour through your hotel, not from street vendors no matter how legit their business looks. There are street vendors who even though they have a storefront and business signs, they are not a legit tour company and after you’ve paid, your tour is invalid.

Your travel agent should be able to help you with the rest of the details to your trip. I wanted to cover the basics, some of which was not told to us by our travel agent. We had the time of our lives in Cancun, and would recommend it to anyone, especially for honeymooners.

Honeymoon Ideas: San Francisco

If you and your future spouse prefer the energy and excitement of big metropolitan cities to the sun and surf of the tropics, then San Francisco could be the perfect honeymoon destination for you. San Francisco is famous for its steep hills, cable cars, sourdough bread, the TransAmerica Building, mysterious and romantic fog, and the Golden Gate Bridge. It has something for everyone.

What to do:

You can spend weeks in San Francisco and still not see everything (take it from me; I have lived here three years and am still amazed at what I discover!). This world-renowned city has an unlimited number of attractions.

San Francisco has dozens of unique neighborhoods that are fun to explore. For example, North Beach is known for Coit Tower and its fabulous Italian food, Haight is known for its shopping and the 1960s hippie hangout, while the Mission is known for its lively bars, great restaurants, and Hispanic culture.

Fisherman’s Wharf is perhaps the most popular tourist destination. Here, you’ll find dozens of specialty shops and seafood restaurants, the San Francisco Maritime Museum and its fleet of historic vessels, the Cannery, and Pier 39. Pier 39 is a world famous festival marketplace and includes a two tier Venetian carousel, talented street performers, and a colony of sea lions.

Be sure to visit the free Cable Car Museum in Nob Hill. Here, you can learn about the history of the cable cars, how they work, and view old photographs of San Francisco.

Golden Gate Park is a 200 acre park nearly four miles wide and a little over half a mile long, with one edge bordering the ocean. Attractions include a children’s playground with an old-fashioned carousel, an arboretum, several small lakes, a golf course, several museums, and a buffalo pen.

Union Square is San Francisco’s top destination for shopping. The shops surround a square park and include a wide range of stores, from Tiffany’s to Borders Books.

Lombard Street, "the crookedest street", is another popular tourist attraction. Most tourists drive down the one-way street in bumper-to-bumper traffic then take photos at the bottom. I think it’s best to walk down and enjoy the sweeping bay views and architecture of the adjacent homes.

Don’t forget to enjoy the grandeur of the city from a distance. If you’d like to view the city from a boat on the bay, I recommend exploring the infamous former federal prison island of Alcatraz (reserve early!), hiking and picnicking on Angel Island, or whale-watching. All three experiences include boat rides on the bay. If you’d like a birds-eye view of San Francisco, head to the highest point in the city known as Twin Peaks.


What to wear:

Weather in San Francisco is unpredictable all year round. One day may be balmy and warm while the next might be cold and misty. Generally, winter is rainy and summer is foggy. The nicest consecutive weather is usually during the months of September, October, April, and May.

San Francisco inhabitants dress rather casually. All things considered, you’ll probably want to dress in layers. Your suitcase should contain one pair of shorts (pack additional pairs if you plan to travel outside of San Francisco during the summer months), jeans and pants, various shirts, one sweater, and a jacket. Pack one dressy outfit for a night on the town. Comfortable shoes are a must; sunglasses and sun block are a good idea.


Getting Around:


San Francisco is pedestrian- and public transit- friendly. Since street parking can be problematic and parking garages can be expensive, driving is discouraged. It’s also unnecessary, as public transit is easy to use and convenient for travelers. Purchase a monthly, daily, 3-day, or 7-day pass. Or, simply pay $1.00 per ride (please note the historic cable cars are more expensive at $2.00 per ride). Of course, walking is also an option. San Francisco is forty-nine square miles, roughly seven miles wide by seven miles long. If you get tired, you can always hail a cab.

I could go on and on about all the fun activities in San Francisco. However, whether you decide to relax in a bed & breakfast, frolic in Golden Gate Park, or do some intensive exploration of the city, you’re sure to have an unforgettable time in the "City by the Bay".


Links to more information:

SF city transit: www.transitinfo.org/Muni/

SF Cable Cars: www.sfcablecar.com/

Cable Car Museum: www.cablecarmuseum.com/

SF neighborhood guide: www.sfgate.com/traveler/guide/sf/neighborhoods/

Whale watching: www.oceanic-society.org

Alcatraz: www.nps.gov/alcatraz/

SF Maritime Museum: www.nps.gov/safr/

Fishermans Wharf: www.sfguide.com/shopping/fisherman.htm

Union Square shopping: www.unionsquareshop.com/

Angel Island: www.angelisland.com/

Honeymoon Ideas: New Orleans

Where can you find the best in nightlife, historical sites, food, and romance for your honeymoon? In New Orleans, of course. Full of old-world charm, delicious eateries, romantic places, and an overall good time, New Orleans is a honeymooner’s paradise.

Full of good food, fun, and a million sites to see, New Orleans is home to several well-known restaurants, hotels, and personalities and is truly in a world of its own.

Staying in New Orleans can be an adventure. On your trip, you may want to spend the night at a historic French Quarter hotel or European style guesthouse. The Omni Royal Orleans or the Bourbon Orleans are ideal locations in the center of the Vieux Carre (that’s French for French Quarter). Maybe you want to sleep at one of the many plantation homes along the Mighty Mississippi, where several offer bed and breakfast accommodations. There are also a number of big name hotels in the Central Business District that offer packages for honeymooners as well as shuttle services.

There are tons of things for you to do while visiting the “Crescent City.” Try a cooking class at the New Orleans School of Cooking, which is both a lesson in Cajun and Creole cooking and culture. Take a walk in Jackson Square, where you can have your fortune told or a portrait drawn by any of the street vendors. Take the St. Charles Avenue streetcar and take a look at the numerous Victorian mansions and million dollar homes in the Garden District.

After working up your appetite touring the city, you may want to try lunch in one of the many mom and pop sandwich shops- try a seafood po boy sandwich- A French bread sandwich chocked full of your choice of fried seafood- or maybe try a muffaletta from Central Grocery, another unique sandwich that combines a blend of olive salad and Italian meats topped with several cheeses. Later, have a snack of beignets and café au lait at the world famous Café Du Monde.

You can also visit many of the city’s attractions, like the Cabildo and Presbytere to see a little of the history of New Orleans, or even take a shopping trip through the French Market, a bazaar of several wares peddled by locals. Spices, fruits, and vegetables that are unique to New Orleans cooking are also available at the Farmer’s Market.

After a full day of sightseeing and activities, you may want to take it easy. Spend a romantic dinner with dancing on one of the nightly paddlewheel boat jazz cruises, or have dinner at one of the many eateries that offer delectable Creole and Cajun cuisine, like Emeril’s, Commander’s Palace, and Galatoire’s. After a relaxing dinner, stay awake for the most well known part of New Orleans-the nightlife.

The nightlife of New Orleans is the main draw for many tourists and honeymooners alike. Bourbon Street, in the heart of the French Quarter, is where jazz clubs, dance clubs, and cocktail bars spill music onto the street. You must go to the world famous Pat O’Brien’s and try a Hurricane, a fruity drink that is known for its inhibiting qualities. You may also want to walk to the Cat’s Meow or Razoo and try out karaoke, or even visit the Bourbon Street Blues Co. to hear some of your favorite blues tunes. A little bit further from Bourbon Street, on St. Peter Street, you can find the New Orleans Jazz Preservation Hall where you can hear the real stuff when it comes to Dixieland Jazz.

All in all, New Orleans is an excellent city for a couple to visit for their honeymoon. Whether searching for relaxation, or a busy trip, honeymooners can revel in both the casual atmosphere of the city as well as enjoy the intoxicating entertainment. For more information on visiting New Orleans for your honeymoon, contact the New Orleans Metropolitan Convention and Visitor’s Bureau.

Honeymoon Ideas: The Poconos, America's Original Land of Love

Known exclusively for its heart shaped hot tubs and couples-only resorts, the Pocono Mountains of Pennsylvania are full of sites and activities for every honeymooning couple.

In the northeastern corner of Pennsylvania the Pocono Mountains are home to eight couples-only resorts, superb ski slopes, over 150 lakes, and are a favorite getaway location that attracts approximately 285,000 lovers every year.

In 1963 it all began when Life Magazine featured Morris B. Wilkins’ Cove Haven Resort on Lake Wallenpaupack and introduced the honeymoon suite with the heart shaped hot tub. Nearly 40 years later, Wilkins’ resort is now equipped with seven-foot- tall champagne glass hot tubs, wood burning fireplaces, and even personal heart shaped pools in most suites.

Four of the couples-only resorts in the Poconos are owned by Caesar’s Pocono Resorts and provide a wide array of activities and cozy suites that encourage a sense of romance in their all-inclusive packages. The most extravagant suites are equipped with the champagne glass hot tub for two, round king sized bed, and an in-suite pool that allows couples to enjoy their honeymoon without even leaving their suite. All-inclusive packages also include breakfast in bed and the opportunity to jump from resort to resort and enjoy activities like waterskiing, snow skiing, ice skating, and tennis, among others. At night, after a delectable dinner of steak and lobster tails, or any of the other wonderful dishes offered at the resorts, a couple can enjoy dancing, live comedy, and even games such as The XXX Newlywed Game.

Other than Caesar’s, there are a few other couples-only resorts that offer similar amenities and activities. For those who choose not to stay at an all-inclusive couples’ resort, the Poconos are also home to a number of quaint country inns and bed and breakfasts that cater specifically to honeymooners.

Outside resort grounds, the Poconos make a wonderful playground for just about any couple. For the adventurous, outdoorsy couple, there are numerous hiking trails including the Appalachian Trail as well as whitewater rafting in the Lehigh Valley Gorge. For those who like to sightsee, there are dozens of places to visit, like Bushkill Falls, known as the “Niagara of Pennsylvania,” Callie’s Candy Kitchen, home to some of the best chocolate confections, or Knoebel’s Groves, a family owned amusement park that has been around since the 1950’s. For those looking for the ultimate in relaxation, there are chair lift rides, horseback riding, and fishing, activities that allow the opportunity to take in the natural beauty of the Poconos.

No matter the season, the Pocono Mountains have dozens of activities for any couple. Whether its hiking through the fall foliage, water skiing on Lake Wallenpaupack in the summer, skiing down the slopes in the winter, or enjoying the blooms and scents of spring, the Poconos have a wealth of country charm and cozy havens of romance for every couple.

Honeymoon Ideas: Italy

When someone mentions Italy, the first thing that comes to mind is romance, great food, and beautiful sites. However, many honeymooners choose the typical places such as Hawaii or the Bahamas for their honeymoon destination. Why not have your honeymoon in Italy? Many might think a honeymoon in another country would just be too expensive and too hard to plan. I'm living proof that it's affordable and the adventure of a lifetime! You must first determine the purpose of the honeymoon: Is it to rest and relax? Is it to have adventures and see sites at the destination? Or is it a little of both? If you want a little of both, Italy is the place to go!

Here’s how to begin to plan your destination to Italy...

1) Time

Definitely don’t go to Italy in the months of July and August if possible because it is too packed with tourists and hard to get rooms to stay in. Also, it gets pretty hot during that time. The best months are October, November, March, April, May, and early June. You also need at least 7 or 8 days to visit; two weeks would be ideal.

2) Packing- pack light!

Try to just get a big backpack and let all the extras go if you can! The sockets aren’t the same as the U.S. so forget any blow dryers,etc. You need your underwear, socks, 2 pairs of good shoes, 2 pairs of good jeans, some tank tops and t-shirts. You probably won’t even have time or the need to wear dressy clothes. Bring a warm coat and an umbrella too. The only way you should bring your whole wardrobe and lots of shoes is if you are staying in just one area of Italy and in one hotel which you probably won’t because there’s so many places to go in Italy!

3) Getting there

The Leonardo Da Vinci Airport in Rome is most likely the airport you’ll want to land in. For tickets, do your work on the internet and give yourself time to find a good price. Start with priceline.com and search the other cheap ticket sites. We flew roundtrip for $533 per ticket from Los Angeles to Rome. Since most weddings are on Saturdays, chances are you’ll be traveling on a Sunday if you plan to leave the next day. Stay at a hotel near the airport the night of your wedding so it’s easy to get yourselves to the airport.

*tip: I stayed at the same hotel the night before the wedding with my Maid of Honor so we could have all of our luggage already at the hotel.

4) Where to stay

Now this depends on your personality. My cousin who travels a lot said that it’s best to just go and get a room when you get there since you’ll have no idea what the room is really like if you reserve over the phone. It’s best to walk around a little and see for yourself. If you just can’t go somewhere without having a reservation, you can call the Southern California Autoclub if you’re a member to get help or talk to the travel agent you use.. Key word: hostels and Bed and Breakfasts. Trust me, you’ll want to stay at those unless you’ve got money to burn. Otherwise ask to reserve at three or four star hotels. At a hostel or bed and breakfast you’ll most likely share a bathroom with other guests which is fine because you can wake up early and get in and out; it’s no big deal. If you don’t like that, you’ll pay just about $20 extra to have your own bathroom depending on the city.

a) If you choose to just show up and look for rooms, it’s easy. Start at the airport’s hotel info desk, they can give you different hotel information and even reserve a room for the night right there if you like. Another great place to start is at the central train station-people from the hostels and bed and breakfasts just come right up to you and ask if you need a room to stay in. That’s what we did and it was really no problem.

b) If you must reserve, like I mentioned, your travel agent can help. Also, the internet is a good place to search. You shouldn’t pay more than about $190 US dollars for a hotel room for two. The hostels and bed and breakfasts are about $40 -$70 a night. But, I truly recommend being flexible and doing the “play it by ear” way because it’s a lot more fun and you can be more adventurous.

5) Where should I go and how do I get there?

Da Vinci airport in Rome is a big airport where you’ll most likely start.



a) Rome: You have to see Rome with its Colloseum, Trevi fountain, the Vatican, etc. As soon as you get in town, get a map and a guide so you’ll know where to go. There are small fees to see certain sites like the Colloseum just so you know. You will take the train everywhere, please don’t rent a car. Italians drive in a very different way than us. Besides, it’s more convenient on the train and will cost less as gas prices are sky high in Italy along with the tolls on their freeways.

b) Florence: This can be done on a day trip if you start early. Take a train north of Rome to Florence to see Michelangelo’s David at the Accademia museum along with his and Galileo’s tombs at the San Croce church nearby. Don’t miss the Uffici Museum, but go there to make reservations because lines are bad. If not, go around lunch and it won’t be as bad.

c) Pisa: It’s West of Florence, take the train to see the leaning tower and that should be a short trip, there is no reason to stay in Pisa.

d) Cinque Terre: A must do if you want peace and relaxation. It’s up North in Italy. Take the train to La Spezia and then the trains into the 5 villages (Cinque Terre). I recommend the villages of Maggiore or Vernazza. It’s absolutely beautiful here and it’s by the coast. Cute bed and breakfasts start at about $50. There aren’t any hotels here. Just keep an eye out for “Camere or Camera” which means “rooms.” 3-4 days is sufficient for your stay in the Cinque Terre.

e) Pompei, near Napoli: This is in Southern Italy. Please stay in the town of Sorrento and take a train into Pompei to see the ruins of this once great town which was devastated and covered due to the eruption of Mt. Vesuvius in 79 A.D. It was later discovered and excavations have been ongoing. A MUST SEE!!! Sorrento is the greatest town and the food and shops are terrific. Try the hostels for rooms and you might end up like us staying in a little apartment for less than $60! You can also ask around at the bars for rooms and someone will call somebody to help you get a room because that’s how they are in these small towns!!! Stay in Sorrento about 3 days if you can.

6) Only in Italy for a short time?

Rome and Sorrento (for Pompei)-those are the ones you’ll definitely not want to miss.

7) Money saving tips

Buy your sodas and water from the little markets, it’s cheaper. Just order the first course (Primi patti) and skip Main courses. Order house wine. Try eating at the little pizzerias-you’ll save. Don’t reserve a room without looking around a little unless it’s a really good price and room.

Well! That’s it! Have fun in Italy and don’t forget to send postcards!

10 Tips for Smooth Traveling

Planning to fly to your honeymoon destination? Keep in mind that even the most seasoned traveler can run into snags along the way. Following are 10tips to keep your traveling trouble-free.

1. Most airlines allow one or two bags to be carried on, as well as a purse, briefcase or laptop. Make sure to always pack a change of clothes in your carry-on baggage, as well as any medications. Pack prescription pills in their original containers

2. If in doubt, pack anything that might be questionable to security personnel (nail clippers, knitting needles, pepper spray, etc.) in your checked luggage.

3. Arrive early. Plan to get to the airport two hours early for a domestic flight, or three hours early for international. This will allow ample time to check in, check your bags, find your gate and even pick up a magazine or two at the gift shop.

4. Remember where you parked. It might sound silly, but you are going to be gone for a few days (I hope!) and might forget where you left the car. Each level of a parking deck tends to look alike, and the last thing you want to do is come home and not be able to find the car.

5. As soon as you’ve checked in and received your boarding pass, find your gate and double-check your departure time. These can change quickly, and if you don’t want to be stranded at the airport, be sure to keep an eye on this crucial information.

6. Speaking of being stranded, did you know that there is a rule that states that if your flight is canceled for any reason other than weather, you have the right to be put on the next available flight to your destination? It’s called Rule 240, and it’s a clause in your ticked that requires the airline to put you either at a higher class of service or on another airline. But, you have to ask.

7. Be sure to bring along some cash for last-minute snacks, tips or any emergency toiletries you might need. You never know if your flight might be delayed, and you’ll want to be prepared.

8. While waiting for your flight, or while you’re in the air, why not get those thank-you notes written? Write them in-flight, and they’ll be ready to mail as soon as you get home. Or, if you’re traveling domestically, mail them at your destination!

9. If you are prone to motion sickness, talk to your doctor prior to your trip about a new patch that is used for motion sickness. Or, bring along some non-drowsy Dramamine - it will keep your stomach stable without making you too tired to enjoy your trip. This could also be helpful if you are planning to take a cruise.

10. Finally, enjoy yourself! Your honeymoon is a once-in-a-lifetime event - take the time to enjoy yourself, your new marriage and your destination!

Honeymoon Ideas: Aruba

Choosing a honeymoon destination is a big decision... after all, this is the first trip of your married life, the chance to get away together after all the stress of planning the wedding, time to just relax and enjoy each other's company. And there's no better place to enjoy your honeymoon than the beautiful Caribbean island of Aruba.

Aruba's slogan is "One Happy Island" - and it shows! The people of Aruba are among the friendliest in the world. They love their homeland and are enthusiastic about sharing its beauty and history with visitors. Dutch is the official language, since Aruba is a colony of the Netherlands, but all Arubans also speak fluent English, as English is a required subject in Aruba’s schools. The native language of the island, however, is Papiamento, a lovely and melodic tongue spoken only on the three “ABC” islands of Aruba, Bonaire, and Curacao.

The popularity of summer and early autumn weddings - which is prime hurricane season - has made Aruba a hot spot for honeymooners. The island is outside of the Caribbean hurricane belt, which means that you don't have to worry that your trip will be disrupted (or even canceled!) due to a hurricane. In fact, chances are slim that you will see any rain at all on this unique desert island. Aruba experiences constant trade winds, which keep clouds moving quickly and prevent rain formations from hovering over the island. And the winds provide a cooling breeze for sunbathers as well!

Aruba boasts several unique and exciting sightseeing destinations, from the famous natural pool (a secret, hidden pool on the windward coast surrounded by rocks) and natural bridge (the Caribbean's highest coral structure, 25 feet above the sea) to snorkeling among the ruins of sunken ships – there is something for everyone! Take a Jeep tour of the island and marvel at the fact that this island in the Caribbean is actually a desert… take a tour of the Butterfly Farm and watch these gorgeous insects hatch… visit one of the many glamorous casinos on the island… enjoy water sports such as water skiing, para sailing, windsurfing, or scuba diving… or take a bar-hopping tour to see all the nightlife downtown.

One of the most appealing features for honeymooners is Aruba’s range of accommodations. From luxury hotels to choices for the more budget-minded couple, you’ll find it all here. Whether you’re looking to splurge and stay in a deluxe high-rise or an all-inclusive resort, the perfect choice is waiting for you in Aruba. And you’re likely to find that many of the other couples in your hotel are honeymooning as well!

Dining in Aruba is an experience unto itself. You’ll find choices ranging from casual restaurants overlooking the ocean to international cuisine in a restored mansion – even dinner on a shipwrecked boat! Fine dining options can be found in most of the larger hotels, and many restaurants specialize in native Aruban favorites. And for a fun, romantic evening on the sea, be sure to make reservations on Tattoo – Aruba’s floating nightclub! For more information on the many varied dining options in Aruba, visit http://www.arubadining.com

If it’s shopping you’re into, you’ll never want to leave Aruba. The island’s shops are packed with great deals on imported luxuries such as perfumes, crystal, china, and designer fashions. In fact, many of the larger hotels contain specialty shops offering watches, jewelry, and lavish gifts. Local handicrafts are also abundant to allow you to take home the feel of the island.

Of course, the nicest feature of Aruba is how joyously the island caters to honeymooners. Be sure to ask your travel agent about the “One Cool Honeymoon” package which is available through participating resorts, offering a complimentary bottle of chamagne or wine, a souvenir gift, a certificate for a free night stay when you return to celebrate your first anniversary – even a complimentary honeymoon door hanger! The package also includes terrific discounts for dining and local attractions.

Aruba is truly a honeymoon paradise, the perfect place to celebrate your marriage and create new memories to enjoy forever!

Honeymoons And Weddings Ideas: St. Lucia

St. Lucia, a 27 mile long mango shaped island in the Winward Islands of the Lesser Antilles, is truly a paradise. Surrounded by the Caribbean Sea on the West, and the Atlantic Ocean on the East, St. Lucia’s twin mountain peaks, the Pitons, rise 2,000 feet above sea-level. The island is home to many beautiful rain forests, and home to the beautiful and elusive St. Lucia Parrot.

The island was the subject of heated war between the French and the British for over a century, with both attempting to make it a colony. St. Lucia became an independent member of the British Commonwealth in 1979, but the island retains a strong attachment to its French culture (most evident in the beautiful lilting accent, and the delicious rich Creole cuisine).

The most often-heard saying in St. Lucia is “no pressure, no problem.” This slogan, emblazoned across t-shirts, and other souvenir items, is a true way of life on the gorgeous island. This is the place for you if you want to be pampered in a true island paradise, if you want to snorkel in outstanding reefs, laze about on white-sand shores, see amazing creatures in lush rain forests (the native islanders call St. Lucia the Island of the Iguana), and sip on delicious tropical drinks made with St. Lucia’s award winning locally distilled rum.

Travel Considerations:

- Passports are required for all travelers, with the exception of US and Canadian residents. These visitors are allowed with a valid return ticket and picture ID, as long as they are staying for 6 months or less.

- Currency is the Eastern Caribbean Dollar, but US Dollars are widely accepted on the Island. (US $1 = approximately EC $2.65

- The commonly spoken language is English, but a French-based patois is also prevalent.

- St. Lucia's temperature ranges from 65-85 degrees (Fahrenheit) from December to May and 75-95 degrees from June to November.

- You will be responsible for an EC $35 departure tax per person before leaving the Island. At the St. Lucian airport they say, “if you don’t pay then you stay!”

- Time in St. Lucia is US Eastern Standard Time plus one hour

- The two airports on St. Lucia are Vigi Airport in the north, and Hewanorra Airport in the South. There are also several seaports, one accommodating cruise ships. Please check with your local International Airport for flights and connecting airports.


Where to Stay:

St. Lucia offers a large variety of accommodations to visitors, including Hotels & Resorts (including several all-inclusive resorts), Inns, Guest Houses and Villas. Please visit The St. Lucia Tourist Board’s site for more information.


Weddings:

Most of the accommodations on the island offer wedding packages, but the following offer special wedding packages: Anse Chastanet, Club St. Lucia, Green Parrot Inn, Le Sport, Royal St. Lucian, Sandals St. Lucia, Sandals Halcyon, Rex St. Lucian, and Windjammer.


Documents Required/What you will pay:

-Passport

-Birth Certificate

-Proof of Divorce/Death Certificate of former spouse (if applicable)

-A sworn, notarized parental affidavit if under 18

-Deed Pool, if changing names

-You MUST be on the island for at least two business days (time for solicitor to file application with Attorney General)

-Notarial Fees & Marriage License - EC$302.50

-Registrar Fees - EC$120.00

-Marriage Certificate - EC$8.00


Weddings (Church and outside of Churches) can be preformed within 5 days of arrival if all procedures are followed. It is best to check with your resort/hotel to see if they can assist you in planning ahead.

For more information on St. Lucia including the phone numbers/websites of your local St. Lucia tourist board, please visit the Official Website of St. Lucia’s Tourist Board

Planning Your Honeymoon: Terms To Know

Here are some travel terms you should be familiar with when planning your honeymoon.


AIRLINES

Nonstop-a flight directly from one place to another with no stops in between.

Direct-the plane my stop along the way, but you will not have to get off.

Connecting-you will have to change planes somewhere along the way to reach your destination.


CAR RENTAL

Drop-off or Intercity charge-a fee for returning the vehicle in a town or location other than the one in which it was rented.

Unlimited mileage-you pay for the gas and are not charged per mile.

Additional insurance-car rental agencies always offer optional collision and damage insurance, for which you pay an additional fee, but you may already be covered; some major credit card companies, such as American Express, provide that coverage automatically when their cards are used to pay for the rental. Check to see. You can also check with your personal insurance agent to see whether your own homeowner’s policy or personal care insurance includes liability coverage for car rentals.


HOTELS

Double-occupancy rate-a per person price based on two people sharing the room.

Double-room rate-the quoted price of the room (to be occupied by two people).

Guaranteed late arrival-confirms your reservation no matter what time you arrive; typically, either cash or credit card must pay for the room in advance, to hold the room past 6 or 7 P.M. If you do not arrive, you will have paid for the room anyway.

Standard-the basic accommodation.

First class-usually a notch about the basic.

Superior-top accommodation.

Suite-a bedroom with a separate sitting room.

(NOTE: Terminology for the levels of accommodations my vary from one hotel to another; sometimes, they are designated by bed configuration: twin, double, queen, king. In Europe and Asia, you may have to specify a “matrimonial bed”-they don’t usually understand what we mean by double, queen, etc.).

Oceanfront-directly facing the ocean, but not necessarily with direct beach access.

Ocean view-you can see the water from somewhere in your room, but it probably will not be the panoramic view you expected.


MEAL PLANS

AP (American Plan)- includes breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

MAP (Modified American Plan)-includes two meals, usually breakfast and dinner.

EP (European Plan)-includes no meals.

BP (Bermuda Plan)-includes a full breakfast.

Continental Breakfast-includes a light breakfast of rolls, jam, and coffee or tea.


MISCELLANEOUS

Vouchers-issued by the travel agent to be exchanged for meals, rooms, tours, and so on.

Duty Free-means the items are sold free of that country’s taxes; if you exceed your U.S.

Customs limit, however, you will have to pay U.S. taxes upon return to this country.

Options-those opportunities, like sight-seeing or sports activities, that are available at extra cost and no included in your package price.

Rate of Exchange-the current equivalent of foreign currency to U.S. dollars; generally, you get the best rate of exchange at a bank, the worst at a hotel.

Traveler’s Checks-just like real money (that you paid to the issuer) but safer than carrying cash because travelers checks carry your signature; the best known are American Express, but there are many others accepted worldwide. You should each have some with your own signature.

Spice Up Your Honeymoon

Hoping for an unforgettable honeymoon? Set aside the maps and tour guides for a few hours and focus on the most important aspects of this whole marriage thing - the two of you!

While you're not spending thousands of dollars to head to an exotic locale just to stay in bed all day, there are plenty of ways to make bedtime fun...not to mention hotter than you expected making love married to be.

If you're not use to playing wild one, your honeymoon is an ideal opportunity to try something together you probably never would at home. Give yourselves permission to enjoy each other as a man and a woman as well as madly in love newlyweds.


Go public

While indecent exposure can still get you arrested, there are ways to be daring and have a public encounter without it being so, well....public.

Beaches at nighttime are a romantic favorite. A frequent traveler to Mexico said he frequently sees and hears couples making love on the beaches late at night. It's so accepted, no one pays much mind. Be sure to take a blanket to avoid sand in uncomfortable places, and be aware that many hotels have security to keep people away from the ocean at night. At popular honeymoon locations, you won't likely be interrupted unless you decide to take a post-coital swim.

Hotel balconies are another favorite. Couples often book rooms that overlook oceans or lush gardens. Assuming your room is high enough and that you're not practically sharing a balcony with your next door neighbor, making love under the stars or with the sound of ocean waves crashing can be incredibly moving.

You don't have to fully get it on in the great outdoors either. Try some suggestive ploys. At dinner, let your new husband know that you "forgot" to wear panties. If he asks for proof, give him a quick peek. In the taxi, let your significant other know what you have in mind for later. While browsing through shops, give him a suggestive touch, stand closer to him than necessary or make a suggestive comment. You won't be able to make it back to the hotel fast enough.


Make a Mess

Public outings not your thing? Keep it in the bedroom, but don't keep it clean. From flavored massage oils to chocolate and whipped cream ordered from room service, get creative and make yourself a human sundae. Not hungry? Sensual massage oils that heat up and further stimulate can be a dream on most body parts. Find them at stores like Spencer's or Fredrick's of Hollywood. Too red-faced to go browsing? Try online.

The best part of getting messy may just be cleaning up. Bring along your favorite bath oils or bubbles and fill the tub. If you forget, have roses delivered to your room and toss the petals into the tub. Light some candles, turn on the clock radio and let clean up begin.


Toy Time

Pick a night to go wild. Offer to fulfill one sexual fantasy for each other. Head to your honeymoon prepared. Make a trip to your local adult boutique or shop online (see above) and surprise your significant other with a role-playing costume, a vibrator or some silky handcuffs per their fantasy. No time for pre-love making shopping? Visit an adult boutique in the town you're in or order the adult movie offered in your hotel room. There's no shame in experimenting, and no one but the two of you will ever know!

Many adult stores/catalogs offer couple games - board or card games that let you explore each other's sexual minds and desires with personal questions and sexy dares. There are certainly never any losers in these games, and you'll love the prizes.


Just The Two Of Us

Want to keep it simple? Simply take time to completely explore each other. Whether you rely on your hands or your mouth, get a real sense of what pleases your partner. Watch your spouse's reactions and how they respond to your touches, kisses and moves. Consider this your first lesson in Marriage 101.

Your honeymoon is your chance to make everything about you and your spouse and the love you share. Making it kinky won't make it any less special, but maybe a smidgen more memorable!

There's no limit to what the two of you can try. Just respect each other's wishes and have a good time and remember...the honeymoon is just the beginning.

Tips for Flying on your Honeymoon

Flying is a very common method of travel in order to get to a chosen honeymoon destination. For some, this may be the first time you will be flying on an airplane. The last thing you want is to be stressed out during your travel when you’ve been looking forward to finally having some quiet time after the hectic wedding planning is over. There are several things you can do to make flying a more enjoyable experience, whether you are a first time flyer or a flying veteran.

The internet is a wonderful travel planning tool. Airlines now have individual websites that you can easily search to obtain flight schedules and fares. It is a good idea to check ticket fares several different times and with several different airlines before making a decision. Often, the lowest ticketed fare for a flight is also a fare that is not refundable, so purchasing a ticket without doing enough research can result in paying more than necessary for an airline ticket. Keep in mind that off-peak days of travel are Tuesday and Wednesday. You will deal with less airport crowding and you may pay a lower fare.

Many airlines now have frequent flier programs. They are usually free to sign up for and can have valuable rewards. You can earn miles for flying and some programs will give you miles for renting a car, using certain credit cards, staying in certain hotels and using certain phone service. Look into signing up for these programs so you can acquire miles for future travel during your honeymoon.

When booking an airline ticket, it has been my experience that it is important to get a confirmed seating assignment. If a flight is overcrowded and no other passengers are willing to give up their seat, the passengers with unconfirmed seating are the first to be bumped to another flight. Several of the airline websites allow you to choose your seat now, or you can call the airline’s reservations number and speak with a representative to assure that you have assigned seats.

Make sure that you arrive at the airport well before your scheduled departure time. For international flights, you must be at the airport two hours before your scheduled departure time and for domestic flights, you must be present one hour before. This will assure you enough time to check your luggage, obtain boarding passes for your flight and to find your assigned departure gate.

Make sure that your luggage has the proper identification tags before you check them. This will help should your luggage be misplaced during your travel. Some frequent travelers have been known to use luggage of color, not just black or brown, so their luggage will stand out and be easy to recognize at baggage claim. Other travelers use bright tape or tags to mark their luggage.

Should your trip require a layover in another city before arriving at your destination, there are several things you can do to make your time more enjoyable. The first thing you should do is locate the gate where your second flight leg will depart. Once you have done this, you can determine how much time you will have to browse around in the many shops that airports typically have. You should also carry a book or a magazine that you can read to pass the time.

Should your flight be delayed or canceled, there are several things you can do to prevent inconveniences. I have found that in an airport crowded with people trying to be rescheduled because their flight has been canceled, it is easier to go to a pay phone and call the airline’s toll free number to reschedule yourself onto another flight. Have your current ticket available and make sure to inform the agent on the phone about your luggage. Always keep a small carry-on with you that is packed with one day’s worth of essentials, such as a toothbrush, and one change of clothing, in case you need to stay overnight for a new flight departing the next day.

For delayed flights, keep the numbers to your hotel and rent-a-car handy so you can inform them of your delay and you will not be charged for being late.

Doing all of these things can make airline traveling a much more pleasant experience.

Ask the Newlyweds: Long Distance Honeymoon

I was very fortunate that my Honeymoon was gift from my husband’s family who all resided in Italy. I am very grateful for their kindness to give us an opportunity to view a country full of tradition of culture, but I rushed myself ruining the experience and causing great stress in the earliest days of my marriage. Here is a lesson on what not to do.

My husband’s uncle asked us where would we like to visit. Due to our new jobs and school we were only allotted one week for our honeymoon so we were limited to our options, but we wanted to see as much as possible. That was first our out of many mistakes trying to do too much in such a small time span. There was no time to take a breath and immerse yourself where you were. Memories were scattered, and locales were mixed up.

Our flight was not direct, but that was not an option since my new in-laws lived on a remote island of an island. The eight hour flight to Milan, plus the lost of sleep due to the time zones was hard enough, but we had to take second flight to Sardinia, then a forty-five minute car ride to the ferry, then a hour long ferry ride to the town where my husband’s grandmother lived.

I was so tired I cried, I felt so horrible, because here I am meeting his family for the first time and I haven’t slept for thirty-six hours. I was seeing family, so there wasn’t an option of a direct flight to our destination. Not a mistake in our case, but I recommend not going somewhere so remote that it causes sleep deprivation on your first vacation as a married couple. It seemed we lost a whole day. I just was married on Saturday and before I knew it, it was Monday afternoon.

Soon as we were relaxed, we had plans off to our next port of call, Venice. If I had to do it all over again, I would enjoy just staying with my husband’s grandmother learning how to cook Italian by the ocean side. Traveling really knocks the wind out of most people, and causes nerves to rise. Our honeymoon was a test of our marriage.

The majority of our time was eaten up by travel, even though we had two full days in each city we visited. Two days is enough time to see many things, but not enough time to see everything if you are hailing taxis and checking in and out of hotel rooms. If there was a moment we weren’t doing anything tourist related we stressed out, that we would miss something else. We didn’t give ourselves time just to do nothing, an important component to achieve relaxation. Venice was small so the two days were compatible for our plans.

Our final destination was Rome a much larger city the remote village or the tiny canals ways in Venice. I was drained after half dozen flights and numerous forms of transportation from on spot to another. Again we forced ourselves to use every spare moment. We went to the Vatican in the morning and to the Coliseum in the late afternoon by means of the subway.

We were in our third bed in 6 days, actually the fourth bed if you include the seat in the airplane coming over and I didn’t know left from right. Our sight seeing became a blur rushing from one landmark to another, without a moment to take in the scenery and realize where we was.

We left Italy on Sunday in which going to the airport, a 90-minute drive was a long distance trip in itself. By the afternoon we were back in America. We needed a vacation from our vacation, but that was not an option since our jobs were awaiting us Monday morning. Another mistake we made.

If traveling a long distance give yourself time to recoup, at least one full day before going back to work. You are on vacation, not on business and your honeymoon is the time to unwind from all the wedding related stress that mounted up during your engagement. Honeymoons aren’t the time to experiment with your stamina or with tension, make sure you can enjoy as much time as possible with little exposure to wastes and stresses of traveling.

-- Renee, Lowell MA

Planning Your Honeymoon: All-Inclusive Package

Ah, the Honeymoon. That ultra-perfect, dream vacation where you and your new husband can finally escape from wedding details and simply relax and enjoy each other’s company. You want it to be a trip to remember, whether it is a weekend excursion to the beach or a month long trip around the world. Whatever you decide to do, you must weigh the pros and cons of opting for an all-inclusive package or planning it on your own.

The all-inclusive package varies from location to location. They are best suited for couples who wish to travel a great distance and/or be away for at least a week. The best place to find out more about such a deal is to talk with several travel agencies and get a general idea of what is available. Don’t pick just one agency and go with it; shop around. Look for “specials”, off-peak season rates that may save you anywhere from $100.00 to $1000.00 dollars. Some travel agencies have “certified” representatives that specialize in particular destinations. These particular agents are quite familiar with the location you are interested in and are trained to make expert recommendations. They can also assist with getting you free upgrades at the resort! Keep in mind that some of what you are spending is actually fees for the travel agent.

What will your package include? It is a general rule that most packages include hotel accommodations, transportation around the resort, all meals, all drinks (alcohol and soft drinks) activities within the resort, and gratuities! This is a big plus, ensuring that you can bring limited amounts of cash with you on your trip. Most packages DO NOT come with airfare, spending money, taxes, or certain activities like spa treatments.

All-inclusive packages must be paid for upfront, and often it seems like an incredible amount of money. Depending upon where you go, expect to spend approximately $3000 per person, per week. Remember to also figure in spending money and airfare. While this seems like a very high amount, consider everything that you will be getting, and break it down. You will probably notice that you are getting very high quality service and food for a reasonable price. The all-inclusive generally means a worry free and leisurely trip, but do be prepared for emergencies or unforeseen expenses.

If $3000 (or more!) per person is way out of your budget, then you may be happier planning your own honeymoon. This is ideal for couples vacationing closer to home, who don’t wish to be “boxed in” to a resort, or who are looking for cheaper prices. If price is your biggest issue, ask family and friends to recommend quality vacations spots that they visited in the past. Is it possible you have a friend who owns a vacation home and will be willing to let you “borrow” it for a few days? Also check out travel plans with groups like AAA. They often have discount prices for travelers.

Think of the type of honeymoon you want: camping in the mountains? A trip to the shore? Plan accordingly by budgeting what you are able to spend. Factor in individual meal costs, gasoline (if you are traveling by car) gratuities and spending money. Remember that you won’t have a travel agent to deal with, so anything you plan is solely up to you! You also won’t have to consider the fees associated with a travel agency.

If you are driving yourselves, remember to plot your course. Get reliable directions, and watch out for potential trouble spots like construction on the highway.

The beauty of planning your own honeymoon is that anything and everything is up to you! You can “wing it” and plan your days as they come. Or you can make up your own itinerary and carefully follow it. It’s your call! Just be sure to be prepared for emergencies and have enough money available if needed. Travelers’ checks may come in handy so you are not carrying around large amounts of cash.

Whatever choice you make, remember to leave a copy of your flight schedule, and a contact phone number or address for your family. Most likely you won’t need to contact them (unless you want to!) but it is a safe idea to leave the information just in case.

Have a fun and relaxing honeymoon! You’re earned it!

Tips for Flying to your Honeymoon Destination

Whether you are afraid of flying or a frequent flyer, there are plenty of ways to make your honeymoon flight enjoyable.

Check in as early as possible so you can get a seat with your new spouse, and request an exit aisle seat for more leg room on your flight. You can also request a window or aisle preference.

If you do not have one yet, fill out an application for a frequent flyer card at check-in to get credit for the round trip flight you are taking. Although you may not fly frequently, you can get credit on your card for non-flight activity, depending on the airline carrier (i.e., hotel stays, car rentals, airline credit cards). This way, perhaps your next flight can be free!

Be sure to keep yourself hydrated during the flight. Have water on hand in case you are on a short flight that does not have time for beverage service. Try to avoid soda, as carbonated beverages can get you bloated.

If you are fearful of flying, bring a novel and Walkman with you on the plane. A novel is preferred to a magazine, as you can get more involved in the story of a book rather than flipping through the pages of a magazine. The music from a Walkman helps to drown out the noise of a plane.

Sitting for extended periods of time can cause neck and back discomfort. Bring a special cushion to tuck beneath your head, and ask for a pillow to fit in the small of your back. Get up and move up and down the aisle every hour or so to keep your circulation flowing and give your back a break. Alternate body postures frequently in your seat and stretch your arms, neck, and legs.

Though you are probably traveling to a warm climate, be sure to dress in layers for the plane, as it tends to get cold as the elevation of the plane increases. Ask for a blanket on the flight to cover yourself and keep warm.

Be aware of precautions you should take for safety reasons. For example, you should wear long pants and closed-toed shoes on the plane. Be sure to locate the nearest exit door to you by counting the number of seats it is away from your row (the nearest door may be behind you).

If you have any special dietary restrictions (diabetic, vegetarian, low fat, etc), be sure to call the airline ahead of time to request a special meal.

Be sure to pack a change of clothes, nightwear, medication, and cosmetics into your carry-on luggage just in case your own luggage gets lost. Carry-on luggage can get quite heavy, so try to get a piece that has a handle to pull so that you don¡¦t have to hand carry it.

If you have connections, take the opportunity to move around and stretch by walking through the terminals between flights.