Bridal Registry: get the gifts you want

The bridal gift registry is designed to simplify your life. It helps you get the gifts you want, reduces the number of duplicate presents, and offers your guests an easy foolproof way to shop for you.

A typical bridal registry works like this:

1. You and your fiance visit the store of your choice. Call ahead to make an appointment with the bridal consultant and set aside plenty of time for that meeting. Before you and your fiance register, make an informal list of what you want. Common items include:

• formal and everyday dinnerware
• fine and casual glassware and barware
• serving accessories and flatware
• cooking equipment and cutlery
• kitchen appliances
• table linens
• sheets and bath linens
• home electronics
• luggage
• furniture

It’s helpful to have a general idea of your lifestyle needs before entering the store. Know your color scheme, and think about how many place settings you would like.

2. You meet with the bridal registry director or wedding gifts consultant to determine which items and quantities you want to include on your registry "wish list". At many stores this service is computerized, so you can actually leave with a printout of your list. The bridal consultant can help you make the right choices based on your lifestyle and entertaining requirements. She's familiar with all of the merchandise in the store and can make helpful recommendations based on all your preferences.

3. When guests come into the store, they are given a checklist of the items you've selected. They can then select a gift they like and that fits into their budget. By using the bridal registry, guests are assured that you will like what they have selected. Many times guests can simply call the store and order "the perfect wedding gift" over the phone. Once an item has been purchased, that item is removed from your list.

TIPS:
* Most consultants recommend that couples register together and come to a mutual agreement on the item that will one day be part of their new household. Be prepared to compromise along the way.

* Register in both department stores (which offer a wide variety of gifts) and specialty shops (for unique items).

* Register for gifts in a wide price range.

* Remember to register for gifts that reflect both your taste and lifestyle.

* If you register at more than one store for the same or similar items, update the registries at each store as you receive your gifts.