While the majority of freshly-engaged couples need to register for just about everything under the merchandise sun, there are those who simply don't need a whole lot.
Older and more established, these couples have usually been living on their own for years or have even been married before. For them, merging two households full of appliances, dishes and towels probably means getting rid of stuff, not bringing in more. Sure, it's nice to have some new things, but a "been-there done-that" approach to the process leaves these brides and grooms looking for an alternative registry format.
In addition to other great ideas like the home buyers' registry, and fun, indulgent items such as wines, cigars and fine foods (look for them in our article archives), many couples turn to charities as the answer.
Whether all or part of the wedding gifts are handled this way, charitable donations can be the right compromise. Simply call the association(s) of your choice and find out how such contributions are made. Then inform friends and family of your wish. If guests ask them where you are registered, they can reply that you've opted for a charity instead and pass along the information. Your chosen association may provide you with a card that directs where gifts should be sent and/or send acknowledgement cards to those guests who made donations.
And here's a note from the "while we're on the subject" department: When the party comes to a close, there's bound to be leftover food and flowers that will likely end up in trash bins-unless you make arrangements otherwise.
Many organizations routinely pick up post-party donations and deliver them to members. For instance, homeless shelters and food programs always appreciate food; unclaimed flowers can brighten nursing homes and children's hospitals for days longer. Check your local community pages or chamber of commerce for organizations in your area.
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