Tuesday, December 16, 2008

Registry Q & A: What about bridal registry return policies?

Chances are you know how easy it is to purchase gifts from a bridal registry-- just choose from your price range on the couple's list and you're done. Now it's your turn, as the bride, to create a registry. Although it's fun and not terribly difficult, here are some Q & A that you should read through before registering.

Exactly what happens when we go to register?
You meet with the bridal registry director or wedding gifts consultant to determine which items and quantities you want to include on your registry. At many stores this service is computerized, so you can actually leave with a printout of your list. The bridal consultant can help you make the right choices based on your lifestyle and entertaining requirements. Hint: Register for gifts in a wide price range so your guests have a choice.

What are some items couples commonly include in a registry?
Before you actually visit any store, make an informal list of things you want. Have some idea of your color scheme and think about how many place settings you would like. To help you get started, here are the things that top most wish lists: formal and everyday dinnerware; fine and casual glassware and barware; serving accessories and flatware; cooking equipment and cutlery; kitchen appliances; table linens; sheets and bath linens; home electronics; luggage; and furniture. Be sure to visit our Gift Registry Checklist for a complete list of registry ideas.

When should I register?
Many stores will recommend that you register at least six months before your wedding day or before any engagement parties. One word of advice: Don't try to do it all at once-it can be overwhelming. Make several visits to the store so you can edit and update your choices over time. Also, while appointments are generally not necessary, they are very often preferred.

Can I register for anything in the store?
That will vary by the store and the merchandise available. Many stores may ask that you restrict your list to items in the traditional home departments. However, although you may able to register for nontraditional items (furniture, lingerie, etc.), the registry won't necessarily track their status.

If I register at a store chain, can my guests order from any branch or location?
Yes. Particularly in larger department stores with computerized registries, guests should be able to order system-wide. Also, if the store is part of a conglomerate, they may be able to order from various name stores in the network.

What if we change our minds about an item on our list once we get home?
That's not a problem. Simply contact the bridal registry and inform them of your change.

What is scanning?
When registering at the store, a couple is given a hand-held scanner to scan the bar codes on merchandise they're interested in. It's faster and easier than writing the information by hand. When finished, the scanner is placed in an upload port and the couple's choices are automatically entered into the system. The list is then printed out and changes can be made at that stage.

What is a "completion program"?
If, after the wedding, a couple has received only a partial amount of items from their list, a store may offer them a discount on any of the remaining items. For example, if you receive eight of 12 wine glasses, you may purchase the other four with a discount. This program is more common in department stores and will vary.

What is a "club program"?
This is a special, interest-free charge account just for tabletop: china, crystal, silver. The terms of the account vary from store to store and the program is open to anyone. Note: Completion and club programs used together make a great combination.

How often is our list updated?
The great majority of registries are computerized so that your list is updated automatically as purchases are made.

For how long is our registry kept active?
It varies by store and company, however, registries are often kept open for just over one year so that they're still active for your first anniversary, holidays, birthdays, etc.

What about bridal registry return policies?
Most stores, of course, have a return policy, though the terms may vary. As always, keep the item in its original wrapping and have your gift receipt handy.

How can we let our guests know where we're registered?
Some stores will provide you with "shower cards" that say where you are registered. These cards can be enclosed with the bridal shower invitation. If these cards are not provided, the hostess may indicate where you're registered right on the shower invitation. Never refer to your registry location on a wedding invitation.

Is it possible to order from a store's website?
Stores that have registry websites may inform you about the process and what they offer, but actually require you to register in person. It may vary, so check with the store-or your computer.

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