Register with the store or stores of your choice as early as possible. Be specific about the items you'd like to have. China is easy. Flatware is simple. But don't just say "blue towels." Between all the famous-maker companies, there are probably no less than a dozen different shades of blue. And the same goes for table linens. Don't just say "floral." You can easily indicate your preferences by listing the maker's name and pattern code and/or descriptive color. And try to utilize at least one store that is convenient to your out-of-state guests.
Select gifts for your bridesmaids and maid or matron of honor early. Jewelry has always remained a traditional gift, and the best prices can be found directly after Christmas and Valentine's Day. You can also be creative. Knit, sew, or embroider if you have the time and the talent! Remember that not every bridesmaid need receive the same gift. Consider each personality and what it is that bonds you together. Was one particular bridesmaid a dearest friend since childhood? When you were little, did she fall in love with your teddy bear? Then get her a special one all her own. (No one is ever too old for a stuffed animal!) Did another give up her ski weekend to stroll down the aisle with you? Get her a couple of lift passes. And so on. Traditionally, your maid or matron of honor should receive a gift somewhat better than the rest. But with each token so truly custom designed, who could ever place a price tag on gifts of such thought and love?
Whatever the case, select your bridal party gifts early. If you wait until those few short weeks before the wedding, you won't be able to devote individual attention to each offering.
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