Spice Up Your Honeymoon

Hoping for an unforgettable honeymoon? Set aside the maps and tour guides for a few hours and focus on the most important aspects of this whole marriage thing - the two of you!

While you're not spending thousands of dollars to head to an exotic locale just to stay in bed all day, there are plenty of ways to make bedtime fun...not to mention hotter than you expected making love married to be.

If you're not use to playing wild one, your honeymoon is an ideal opportunity to try something together you probably never would at home. Give yourselves permission to enjoy each other as a man and a woman as well as madly in love newlyweds.


Go public

While indecent exposure can still get you arrested, there are ways to be daring and have a public encounter without it being so, well....public.

Beaches at nighttime are a romantic favorite. A frequent traveler to Mexico said he frequently sees and hears couples making love on the beaches late at night. It's so accepted, no one pays much mind. Be sure to take a blanket to avoid sand in uncomfortable places, and be aware that many hotels have security to keep people away from the ocean at night. At popular honeymoon locations, you won't likely be interrupted unless you decide to take a post-coital swim.

Hotel balconies are another favorite. Couples often book rooms that overlook oceans or lush gardens. Assuming your room is high enough and that you're not practically sharing a balcony with your next door neighbor, making love under the stars or with the sound of ocean waves crashing can be incredibly moving.

You don't have to fully get it on in the great outdoors either. Try some suggestive ploys. At dinner, let your new husband know that you "forgot" to wear panties. If he asks for proof, give him a quick peek. In the taxi, let your significant other know what you have in mind for later. While browsing through shops, give him a suggestive touch, stand closer to him than necessary or make a suggestive comment. You won't be able to make it back to the hotel fast enough.


Make a Mess

Public outings not your thing? Keep it in the bedroom, but don't keep it clean. From flavored massage oils to chocolate and whipped cream ordered from room service, get creative and make yourself a human sundae. Not hungry? Sensual massage oils that heat up and further stimulate can be a dream on most body parts. Find them at stores like Spencer's or Fredrick's of Hollywood. Too red-faced to go browsing? Try online.

The best part of getting messy may just be cleaning up. Bring along your favorite bath oils or bubbles and fill the tub. If you forget, have roses delivered to your room and toss the petals into the tub. Light some candles, turn on the clock radio and let clean up begin.


Toy Time

Pick a night to go wild. Offer to fulfill one sexual fantasy for each other. Head to your honeymoon prepared. Make a trip to your local adult boutique or shop online (see above) and surprise your significant other with a role-playing costume, a vibrator or some silky handcuffs per their fantasy. No time for pre-love making shopping? Visit an adult boutique in the town you're in or order the adult movie offered in your hotel room. There's no shame in experimenting, and no one but the two of you will ever know!

Many adult stores/catalogs offer couple games - board or card games that let you explore each other's sexual minds and desires with personal questions and sexy dares. There are certainly never any losers in these games, and you'll love the prizes.


Just The Two Of Us

Want to keep it simple? Simply take time to completely explore each other. Whether you rely on your hands or your mouth, get a real sense of what pleases your partner. Watch your spouse's reactions and how they respond to your touches, kisses and moves. Consider this your first lesson in Marriage 101.

Your honeymoon is your chance to make everything about you and your spouse and the love you share. Making it kinky won't make it any less special, but maybe a smidgen more memorable!

There's no limit to what the two of you can try. Just respect each other's wishes and have a good time and remember...the honeymoon is just the beginning.