Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Wedding Guide To Speech: Style

Now that you've got enough information, start editing your notes. You don't have to talk about 30 different topics, in fact, I don't recommend it. List out all the elements you want included in your speech, such as the thanks and toast. Once you have the essential elements, work on the actual wording of the speech. Don't forget to have an opening.

Avoid anything that might be considered in bad taste, not only by the bride and groom, but any member of the audience. Imagine if someone had said the questionable item in a speech at your wedding and decide whether you still want to keep it in your speech.

Don't be repetitive in your choice of words. The thesaurus can save a speech. Try to put a twist on quotes and sayings by paraphrasing. Remove "inside" jokes or references that are too personal and might leave the majority of the audience confused.

Read the speech aloud to yourself. The sentences should not sound too long and rambling, nor should they be abrupt. Omit or change words and phrases that sound awkward. The speech should sound as if you were speaking naturally. Once you are comfortable with the speech, you might want to read it in front of one or two other people for their opinions.

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